如果这些可以换一个男朋友 你会换吗

大家都知道，男人来自火星，女人来自金星。虽然男人女人不同，但却又很多相似点，其中最基本的就是异性相吸。可是有很多时候，对于女人的一些举动，男士们都表示不理解或者不认同，对此，The Richest就男生不希望女生做的事情专门做了一些采访，看看他们怎么说，有可能这就是妹纸们找不到男朋友的原因（不好意思哦，一不小心又戳到你们的痛点了惹~）

Duck Face

鸭子脸

撅嘴应该是女生在拍照时的首选动作了，可是在很多男生看来，这个动作貌似有点愚蠢，他们认为拍照时，如果女生选择微笑，这样会比撅嘴好看的多。

Women may believe it makes them look more attractive, but the reality is, in the eyes of men it makes them look less attractive, which no woman wants to be. Duck face is something I think a lot of men are hoping will go out of style in the new year, so ladies if you are reading this, leave this phase in 2016.

女人可能会觉得撅嘴看起来更迷人一些，事实上，在男人眼里，“鸭子脸”反倒减少了女性的魅力，相信任何女人都不想要这样一个效果。许多男人都希望“鸭子脸”在新的一年里将会过时，女士们，如果你看到这里，在2016年赶紧将“鸭子脸”甩掉。

Using Way Too Much Makeup

浓妆

There is one thing we can say with confidence: most men like a girl that wears just a little makeup. Women are naturally beautiful and the idea that they ALWAYS need to wear makeup is something that drives men crazy.Most men find their partners the most beautiful when they are in bed or coming out of the shower. That pure beauty is what makes men keep falling in love with their women over and over.

有一点非常确定：大多数男人都喜欢化淡妆的女孩。女人天生丽质，她们需要明白，有时浓妆会让男人受不了。大多数男人都认为他们的伴侣晚上睡觉或刚洗浴完的时候最美，这些天然美会让男人一次又一次地沉迷。

Yes, putting on makeup is a lot of fun but sometimes it is nice to embrace a more natural look and trust us when we say, men will be even more drawn to your beauty. This is nothing against makeup this is more about loving yourself without any modifications, because as most of you know, the most attractive thing to a man is confidence.

不可否认，化妆很有趣，但有时候，展现你的自然美也是非常不错的，请相信，当你释放天然美的时候，男人会比以往更加沉醉其中。这并不是要求大家反对化妆，更多的是教大家不加修饰地爱自己，因为我们都知道，最能吸引男性的特质就是，女生要自信。

Calling Themselves “Queens”

称自己“女王”

If your man wants to call you his queen, that should be something they do, not something you force them to say. Listen up ladies, a “queen” does not need to remind everybody of their status all the times, real queens know how they should be treated .

如果男人愿意称你为他的女王，那也是自愿的，而不是被迫的，女士们，听好了，真正的女王根本不需要随时随地提醒别人她们的身份，而是知道她们应被如何对待。

Eating Off His Plate

把他的盘子洗劫一空

不少看过老友记的朋友都知道，Joey不喜欢分享他的食物，虽然这个动作有点轻微夸大，但对于很多男士来说，确实是这样的。

Ladies need to understand that men do not care if you order a burger and fries, in fact, if that is what you want they would prefer you to order it. Women must stop trying to give off an image of perfection and just relax and be themselves, especially with men. Yes, men and women are different, but both sexes have similarities. When you eat off his plate, it can be cute, however, when it happens every time you guys go out to eat, it gets a little annoying.

女人需要明白，其实就算你点了汉堡薯条，男人也不在意，一般只有你想要的，他们都会同意你点，所以女人就不必在吃饭的时候还想保持完美，特别是跟男士一起的时候，你们只需要放松做自己就好。虽然男人女人不同，但他们却又很多相似点。可能你吃光他的盘子看起来会很可爱，但如果次次出去吃饭都这样的话，他可能就会有点恼火了。

Always Being On Social Media

沉迷社交媒体

2016 is a year that saw a lot of people get obsessed with social media, especially women. A lot of men get turned off by a girl who is constantly checking on social media, posting and doing whatever else there is to do online.

2016年又见证了许多人痴迷于社交媒体，特别是女人。许多男人都被“放不下手机”的女孩拒绝了，因为她们整天都在刷手机，发帖等等等等。

如果你和一个男生第一次约会，尽量不要玩手机，特别是刷微博等等一些社交媒体。如果想让他喜欢你，就尽量把玩手机留到晚上。

Going Through His Phone

查看他的手机

If you are looking through his phone, the relationship is already over.  To a man, when a woman goes looking for problems, it is a big turn off. Trust is something that is important in a relationship and going through anyone’s phone is seen as an invasion of privacy.

如果你查看他的手机，基本上你们也玩完了，对于男人来说，如果女人存心找事，那就真的很扫兴了。互相信任在恋爱关系中非常重要，查看别人手机就是在侵犯隐私。

Talking During Sports

看体育比赛讲话

We definitely do not want them to talk during our shows, so we should not talk during their favorite shows. We get it, men can be really annoying when it comes to their sports games, however, it makes them insanely happy, which is totally worth it. Let your man watch his sports in peace and if it annoys you, just go in the other room and watch something else. A lot of men are too nice to tell a woman to stop talking, they also know that saying that won’t usually end well, which is why we are telling you ladies for them.

我们真的不希望她们在看体育节目的时候不停地讲话，所以，在看最喜欢的节目时，大家都应该专心。大家都知道，当男人在看体育比赛时，真的很吵，然而，这些节目让他们很疯狂，也是值得的。要么让男人安安静静地看节目，如果真的很吵的话，你可以去别的房间，看一些别的节目。许多男士太好而不愿意告诉女士停止讲话，他们也知道一旦挑明往往结局也不好收拾。女士们，这也是我们为什么来告诉你的原因了。

Playing Mind Games

玩心理战术

在很多人看来，许多男人都是花花公子，他们擅长玩这种恋爱游戏，但其实有时候，女人也是一定的引子。

On the opposite end of the spectrum, if a woman is interested in you, it’s possible that you don’t really know. Women do not wear their hearts on their sleeves and they tend to focus on more than one guy at once. Ladies if you like a guy, tell him and if you do not, stop leading him on. It drives them crazy and it’s really not nice.

跟这种情况相反，如果一个女人对你感兴趣，你可能根本感受不到。女人经常不会表露心迹，有时也会同时注意多个男士。所以女士们，如果你喜欢他就告诉他，如果不喜欢，那也不要再引诱他了。

各位妹纸们，如果让你们放弃这些来换一个男朋友，你们愿意吗？

（英文材料来自the richest  编辑翻译：Aimee）

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